How do you get a successful Tinder meeting? With these tips, you’ll be on your way to the perfect Tinder date and know what to say and what not to say.
What to do before the Tinder date
It starts with scoring the that great date. It’s pretty simple, after all, you both like each other because you already have that match. You both swiped each other to the right while Tindering, the Tinder match. Your first impression with your photos and profile text has already been made. Now all you have to do is confirm this impression.
Our advice is to take immediate action as soon as you have a match. Send an initial message that is original, personal, light-hearted and possibly humorous to make her curious.
For example, look at the photos she has posted and say something about this that she can easily reply to in a fun way. This increases the chances of a response, which will get the conversation going for the first Tinder date.
If you notice her making an effort by responding quickly or at length then you know she is enjoying the conversation. Also, if she starts asking personal questions of you. This is the right time to ask her on a date. Come up with a casual and detailed proposal such as: “Do you have time to have coffee together on Tuesday?”
When asking her out on dates, avoid words like “date,” “agree,” and “go out with. This, in fact, often makes it come across as somewhat heavy-handed, when you are just going to do something fun together and nothing more. If you don’t get a clear response know that she is not interested.
Purpose of a Tinder date
The goal of a Tinder Date is simply for you both to have fun. Keep in mind that there is always a purpose, because with no purpose you can never hit it off.
Don’t ask about the goal. Often you will get a response like “We’ll see. Because you are both having fun, you are more likely to end up in the bed together.
Flirting in the beginning is very important. With this you show your intentions. It is also important that you take the initiative and be clear to her. For example, try to kiss her within 30 minutes. This also lets her know that you are straightforward and not waiting for too many dates.
Be vulnerable by showing your sensitive side.
This will create trust with her. Tell a personal story, these always do well.
By touching her a lot (subtly) she will feel more comfortable with you and the step to go to bed with you will be smaller than with someone who has not touched her at all.
Where to meet
The best location is at your home or close to your home. This way you can always end the date nicely and your bed is always close to you for minimal effort and maximum pleasure. Make sure your home is clean and fresh.
Depending on how your conversation is, she may not want to meet directly at your home. Then choose a nice public place like a park or cafe close to your home.
The time you meet is also important for a good Tinder date. Afternoon or evening are the best options. Often you both don’t have to work afterwards and you just have to think of a fun activity to do together.
Tinder date ideas
On a Tinder date, you want you to do something together that is fun and even a small child would enjoy as well. Preferably also something she has never done before and seems genuinely fun. In order not to think too hard we have some fun Tinder date ideas:
Watching a bad movie at your place
A bad movie makes her attention stop being about the movie and she will soon find it boring. As a result, her attention will soon turn to you. Also, you sit together looking at each other and you can carefully get closer to her by putting your arm around her, for example.
Cooking or cake baking together
During cooking or cake baking, you stand close together. It is the ideal time to touch her in the meantime and make something playful out of it.
Visit romantic places
Visit nice romantic places such as courtyards, parks, nature area (for a walk) or a place with beautiful views.
By dating quickly, there will be less tension than if you have been chatting with each other for longer. Expectations will then naturally be much higher. Often the goal will be to get into a relationship, which is doomed to fail on the first date.
For a Tinder date you can see for yourself how much you really like this woman and what you would like from her.